298 Appendices Theme Subtheme Participanta Quotation coach 023 “…I think the contact is too little to really say that it changed him. I do think he liked to have a little chat with someone he doesn't tell him to do anything, but [he] can vent a little about what he has to do. But I don't know if it really changed him. Maybe you have to have more intense contact for that, more often, more frequently, but that's just almost impossible.” coach 025 “Yes so [I expected to be] more than a mate. Unfortunately, I imagined something more. That I would help him, after all, in a certain way. But yes who knows maybe we will get a little further. It is possible I need a lot of time [to initiate changes].” coach 026 “What has occurred to me is that it is incredibly difficult to help people who need help. […] There can be a lot of good intentions but even then, there can be few results.” Expansion of worldview and beliefs patient 013 “Then we sit and talk and she [referring to the clinician] says: ‘Oh you do have a different kind of view on certain things.’ and so on, and then I say: ‘Yes that's because of [name coach] you know. [...] When you go out more you feel a lot nicer you know and, yes.” coach 037 “Yes, that things can turn out differently in life. It can happen to anyone and I sympathize with him because he doesn’t see his child. It could happen to me, it could happen to anyone. [...] I am grateful for the life I have. And appreciate little things, hugs with a child or something you know.” Sense of fulfillment and purpose coach 030 “The feeling that you're doing something for society, uh, the feeling that you're doing something useful with your free time, […] look I can do things with my free time, I play guitar or something, but you're not helping anyone else with that, at least not directly, and this is at least an attempt [to help someone]…” Using a personalized approach coach 024 “I think the coach really needs to be totally unbiased, and start with an open mind. And actually for this group, for this project so to speak, [a coach] should not create any expectations. But just go in very open, and just look at the situation and then make a customized plan, so to speak. If you make one at all […] I think that if you make too much of a plan it will flop. I think with this group you just have to be very careful in the plans you want to draw, you just have to move along with them. From the perspective of my [participant], I noticed that I gained more if I also let him discover things and experience things himself, by thinking about it. You just, as a person you have to be very much able to activate people, and not try to go after it yourself.” coach 033 “Yes because I didn't know what to expect either so it was nice that we were both exploring a bit and ended up putting our own spin on it. Although at the time it was more sociability than coaching.” a Random numbers were assigned to participants.
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